This very berry quinoa porridge is an easy, clean eating breakfast for busy mornings. It’s full of good-for-your-gut nutritious ingredients, leaving you feeling fuller for longer and energised to take on the day!
INGREDIENTS
1 cup cooked quinoa
3/4 cup macadamia milk or any milk of choice
1/2 Tbsp honey
1/2 tsp vanilla essence
TOPPINGS
1/2 cup of berries of choice
1 tsp sunflower seeds
1 tsp goji berries
1 Tbsp nut butter of choice
METHOD
Warm the milk, honey & vanilla in a small sauce pan over the stove.
Place the cooked quinoa in a bowl & pour milk over it.
There is absolutely no shortage of ancient grains to add to your pantry, but if you haven’t tried bulgur wheat, lockdown is definitely the time to give it a go! Rich in fibre and so easy to cook! This delicious and flavourful meal packs a healthy punch!
INGREDIENTS
AUBERGINE
2 large aubergines
1/2 Cup Mediterranean style vegan cheese, crumbled
1/4 red onion, chopped
2 Tbsp olive oil
Salt & pepper to taste
BULGAR WHEAT
1 1/2 Tbsp olive oil
1/2 yellow onion, diced
1 red pepper, chopped
1 Cups of uncooked bulgur wheat
2 Cups of water
1/4 Cup cherry tomato pasta sauce
Salt & pepper
METHOD
Slice the eggplant down the middle & open it slightly. Make criss-cross lines inside with a sharp knife, drizzle with olive oil, salt & pepper. Start baking in the oven at 180C for 30min.
In a medium pot, heat the olive oil & sauté the onions & pepper until soft.
Add the bulgar wheat & sauté for a minute, stirring constantly.
Add the water & the pasta sauce.
Simmer for about 20 min, adding more water as needed.
Fluff with a fork & serve inside your baked aubergine, top with crumbled “feta”, red onion & fresh parsley!
In today’s business world, leaders can’t afford to underestimate the importance of empowering women at work. From driving innovation to boosting a corporation’s profits, the value of having strong women in the workplace is undeniable. That’s why, this women’s month, we discuss the five most important tools to help organisations everywhere strengthen their female leadership and direct the conversation towards creating a more positive workplace culture.
What is “workplace culture”?
Workplace culture is a product of individual factors that come together to create the every-day environment in an organisation. Think of it as the character or personality of your organization.
Essentially, the space in which we work is shaped by a collection of the values, attitudes, priorities, workplace practices and the type of leadership in the organisation.
Creating a positive workplace culture
The biggest mistake most organizations make is that they let their workplace culture form organically without first defining a specific culture or environment that they hope to create.
However, no matter how big or small the organisation, every business can take gradual steps to start making their workplace a space that encourages and empowers women, and one that is mindful of creating new practices that support female career advancement.
1. Amplify the female voice
In an interview with BBC News, Facebook’s VP, Nicola Mendelsohn, noted that women’s voices are often overlooked in the workplace, saying that “Women get interrupted a lot, or people talk over them. I think there is an element that happens in the workplace where we actually condition women not to speak.”
That’s why it’s essential that organisations encourage open dialogue in the workplace. By providing opportunities for women to have their voices heard, your organisation can help women to educate the rest of the office and allow them to begin to form the type of workplace culture that they’d like to see themselves.
In practice, your organisation can offer workplace training on topics such as implicit bias, inclusion and diversity. Some employees may have never heard of these topics before, let alone critically analyzed them in the workplace. This is a great way to continue to bring the experience of women in the workplace to the forefront of the conversation.
2. Listen and learn
Creating a positive workplace culture is about allowing women to express themselves openly, without fear of judgement. One of the main ways workplace environments can be damaging to female employees is when men in leadership positions try to discredit female voices using tactics such as “tone policing” or by “derailing” the conversation.
This is basically when men try to take focus away from real issues female face in the workplace and put it on the way they choose to express this issue and the tone of voice they use. At its core, this suggests that women have to distance themselves from their emotions in order to be heard, and it allows men to define the terms of the conversation.
That’s why it’s absolutely essential that leaders openly acknowledge their female employees’ experiences in the current workplace culture rather than dismissing the conversation out of fear of criticism.
3. Encourage female leadership
Promoting strong, deserving women to prominent management roles is a great way to create a more positive workplace culture. It also sets a valuable precedent that says, “Yes! Women can hold leadership positions in our organization.”
Gender diversity in the workplace is an essential factor in creating positive results such as bringing in new perspectives, making firms more productive and widening the talent pool. It also tends to signal a more attractive work environment and a positive workplace culture to other potential female employees.
Diversifying management and ensuring female representation also gives women the ability to provide valuable input when it comes to important decisions about the organisation’s policies and practices that will affect the day-to-day lives of every female at work.
4. Equal wages for equal work and experience
It’s only natural; we all love to be rewarded and recognized for good work. In fact, one of the leading factors encouraging motivation in the workplace is something called the Incentive Theory of Motivation.
According to leading psychologists, most people work harder and stay at higher levels of motivation when they are inspired by external reinforcements such as the possibility of promotion, higher wages and an opportunity for growth.
Equal pay is one of the most important parts of creating a space where employees feel valued. Women can’t thrive in the workplace or reach their full potential if they feel that the strengths they bring to the workplace are not recognized and that they are not equally rewarded for their contribution to the team.
5. Support professional development
Creating a safe and open relationship with female employees in the workplace is a real sign of progress, but it’s also important to go a step further and actively provide opportunities for women to grow their skills and enhance their professional development in the workplace.
For example, by creating a mentorship programme for women in the organisation, female employees can shadow other women in leadership roles and build relationships with strong female examples. For most women, seeing another woman in a position of authority is empowering and encouraging, and it is also crucial for better career advancement and professional development within the company.
Your organisation could also consider offering female employees the chance to attend conferences or workshops relevant to the leading practices in your industry. It’s a great way to help them gain some practical experience while developing the skills needed to move up in the organisation. This could be anything from funding external skills development courses to offering leadership training programs which will equip them with the tools to jump-start their career.
Women at WellBe
WellBe&Co strives to empower women by helping ladies everywhere to become their happiest, healthiest selves. WellBe is a corporate wellness company that specializes in easy-to-implement, lifestyle-focused nutrition, training and health solutions.
We know that no two women are alike. That’s why we provide nutrition advice, training programs and supplement advice tailored to your individual needs, goals and personal preferences.
Our WellBe family believes that women who support other women should be every organisation’s ultimate goal. So, if you’re feeling a little unmotivated, simply join our WellBe Instagram community made up of prominent women in the fitness industry where we share daily tips, tricks and motivational messages so that we can all improve and grow together.
Follow our regularly-updated, informative blog posts for guidance on topics that deal with everything from workplace productivity to the art of living a more mindful life. And, while you’re at it, why not take a look at our simple set of recipes that will have you eating clean in no time?
Start the learning journey today and you’ll be your healthiest self both at home and in the workplace in no time.
Diet diversity means to include a range of different food groups into your diet, and a variety of different colours.
Did you know that every food group serves a function for our bodies and provides us with different nutrients?
The colour of foods also influences the kind of nutrients the food offers. Which is why it is important to eat a variety of foods to ensure we are taking in as many vitamins and minerals as possible.
I am sure many of you have heard the phrase, “to eat the rainbow”. This is an old saying that many used to encourage others to eat variety, as it results in increased fibre, vitamin and mineral intake. The colour of fruits and vegetables is created by phytonutrients – natural chemicals that help protect plants from bugs, pesticides and the sun’s harmful rays. Phytonutrients keep the plant healthy and provide us with antioxidant and anti-inflammatory benefits. So, what do the different colours mean?
Red
red fruits and vegetables such as tomatoes and red pepper have cancer fighting properties and reduce the risk of diabetes and heart disease.
Orange and Yellow
orange and yellow fruits and vegetables such as oranges, carrots and corn improve the immune system as they are rich in Vitamin C.
Green
green fruits and vegetables help to detoxify the body and can also assist in supporting the immune system. I am sure many of you heard the saying, “eat your greens” when you were younger. Your parents said this because greens are one of the healthiest foods we can eat. Green vegetables like spinach and broccoli are high in folate – an important B-vitamin.
Purple
purple vegetables such as aubergine and purple cabbage have anti-inflammatory and anti-aging properties.
Blue
blue fruits such as blueberries are high in antioxidants and are a great superfood for the body.
Benefits Of A Diverse Diet
As mentioned, the different food groups each provide our body with unique nutrients and functions. Daily, we consume both macronutrients (carbohydrates, fats, and protein) and micronutrients (vitamins and minerals) which serve a purpose for our body.
Macronutrients are nutrients that are needed in our bodies in large quantities and provide our body with energy.
Micronutrients are non-caloric and provide us with vitamins and minerals to support our gut health and immune system.
Carbohydrates, protein and fat all provide us with energy.
Protein is also important for muscle growth and bone health and fat insulates our organs and assists in hormone production.
As you can see, each food group provides a unique function for our body and aids our body to work in the most efficient way.
Recipe Ideas
Cocoa Blended Oats
Instead of a bowl of plain oats, change it up! Add some peanut butter for healthy fats and protein and top with fresh berries to increase your phytonutrient intake.
What really drives your actions? Most people don’t actually know what prompts, guides and sustains their goal-oriented behaviours in every-day life.
Research shows that extrinsic incentives and seeking external rewards might be the most powerful motivator to encourage individuals to perform certain tasks and actions every day. Understanding what forces are behind your actions can help you better maintain motivation and level-up your productivity to its maximum.
So, what exactly is the incentive theory of motivation?
According to leading psychologists, most people work harder and stay at higher levels of motivation when they are inspired by external reinforcements. That’s where the incentive theory comes in – one of the primary motivation theories that deals with human behaviour and action.
Alternatively called the Reward Motivation Theory, this theory provides an explanation for human behaviour that suggests that productive behaviour is promoted by a desire for outside reinforcements or incentives rather than internal desires. Essentially, people are more likely to behave in a certain way if it will bring about a greater chance of an external reward.
A simple example: an employee might work harder due to the incentive of earning a bonus. Their motivation is their desire to receive this reward.
But, keep in mind, there can be negative incentives too. People are generally pulled towards rewarding actions but pushed away from actions that might lead to negative consequences. For example, you might be more motivated to show up to the gym on the days you feel particularly sluggish due to the negative impact it will have on your progress if you don’t.
So, as you can see, it works both ways. The important thing is to figure out exactly which incentives work for you and how you can use these reinforcements to boost your productivity in your own life.
How can you use this to your advantage?
While both positive and negative reinforcement is effective, at WellBe we like to focus on positivity and optimism when fostering strong motivational habits. Below we focus on some great tips and tricks that will help you learn to self-motivate, be more productive and avoid motivational burn-out.
1. Staying motivated at work
The important thing to remember is that incentives only become powerful if you place personal importance on the reward. That’s why, before setting your mind on any task, it’s important to identify your core values. Determining your unique core values can help you understand what kind of incentive you respond to best.
For example, consider the reward aspects of your desired job. Rewards could be obvious, such as higher pay, praise or professional development. These rewards can also be more subtle – such as being motivated to do work that evokes feelings of pride and achievement, or working hard at a job that makes you feel as if you’re doing meaningful work.
This is especially important for people who are working from home and whose current motivational levels might be at an all-time low. By drawing on these personal gains, you’ll be more inspired to work hard, achieve more and maintain your focus on your work-related goals instead of getting stuck in the lockdown slump.
2. Staying motivated in your fitness journey
When it comes to fitness, everybody’s goals tend to vary and can range from a desire to live a healthy life to a strong dedication to achieving a personal fitness objective or sporting goal. Whether it’s trying to reach your fastest time yet or simply staying dedicated to hitting the gym at least twice a week, it’s important to decipher what your major source of external reinforcement might be.
Keep in mind that not all incentives are created equal. That means that it might take some real reflection on your part to discover what really inspires you to take action and which rewards you find motivating. Once you figure out your primary external reinforcement factors, you’ll truly be able to run further, push harder and unlock your full potential.
3. Staying motivated when maintaining mental health and happiness
While it may seem counterintuitive, a lot of people need to develop real discipline and daily self-motivation habits to take the necessary small steps to achieve their own happiness everyday.
In this day and age, setting aside time for yourself and personal reflection takes some practice. Step away from the screen, put down your phone and give yourself a chance to breathe. Dedicating just a few minutes a day to completely detaching from the world of work and daily home-life stresses can actually make you more productive in the long run, as well as ensure a more balanced outlook and encourage mindfulness.
So, take the time to go for a run, take a long hot bath, bake some sweet treats in the oven or even try a few sessions of online therapy to get more in touch with yourself and your current stresses at this time. What greater motivational incentive is there than ensuring your own health, happiness and mental stability ?
How to stay motivated with WellBe
We know staying motivated during lockdown can be tricky. With most of us working from home and still self-isolating, it’s hard to keep the enthusiasm levels high and our stress levels low. That’s why we’re here to help.
At Wellbe, we want to inspire you to be the happiest, healthiest and strongest version of yourself that you can be – no matter what obstacles you face. That’s why we share our top motivational tips, healthy recipes and mindful yoga sessions with our loyal followers on WellB&Co’s Instagram page every day.
Join our WellBe community and discover our series of helpful blogs and motivational messages to keep you focused on your health and wellness goals.
Our Wellbe team is here to help you start living a life that is truly Happier. Healthier. Wellthier.
Contact us for more information about our exercise and training advice, wellness plans and better body blueprint program.
Perhaps you’re thinking life is already busy and stressful enough as it is. How will I be productive and get everything done in a day if I’m always taking the time to ‘stop and smell the roses’?
Various studies and research show that not only does practicing mindfulness increase our ability to cope with stress, it has also been shown to increase confidence, focus, and our ability to experience joy & happiness.
A Harvard study that was conducted with over 5 000 participants, across 80 countries, showed that our minds wander 47% of the time. That’s almost half of our lives that we are distracted. The study went on to show that we tend to be less happy when our minds wander compared to when we are in the present moment.
Perhaps you already recognize that constant dialogue going on in your mind. If not, try closing your eyes for a moment and think of nothing. It won’t take long before you acknowledge just how much our minds bounce back and forth incessantly from one thought to another.
Our conscious mind is the analytical part of our brain. It’s where we judge, plan, analyze, and criticize, and it can only process a fraction of the data it receives from all our senses. If you were to total up all information you receive every second from your sensory neurons – touch, taste, smell, sight, and sound – it would add up to around 11 million bits of information each second.
And how much do you think our conscious attention can handle? Only 60 bits per second.
Add into the mix an unprecedented growth in technology, our fast-paced and hyper-connected lifestyles result in us feeling overwhelmed and stressed. Our nervous systems are in an almost constant state of ‘fight or flight’. We act out of impulse, our minds feel blurry, unclear, and life can feel rather chaotic.
By practicing mindfulness, we are able to downregulate our nervous system and navigate through our lives with a greater sense of mental clarity and inner peace.
Defined as ‘the ability to focus on the present moment, on purpose, with an attitude of non-judgment’, mindfulness gives us a new vantage point so we can zoom out of the daily demands life throws at us, and are able to think more clearly.
It means moving through your day aware of what you’re doing, where you are, and who you’re with, without getting wrapped up in the inner dialogue of your mind. You allow yourself the space to think, to breathe, and to take up a role as the observer.
Ways to introduce mindfulness into your everyday life:
Spend time in nature – leave your phone at home and simply observe what you see. Take it all in, moment to moment. Even 10 minutes in the fresh air will do.
Mindful exercise – get out of your head and into your body by connecting breath to movement. Practices such as Yoga and Tai-chi help our nervous system get out of ‘fight or flight’ and into ‘rest and digest’.
Seated Meditation – sit comfortably, close your eyes, and observe your breath. The goal is NOT to empty your mind (it will wander!). Rather observe your thoughts as they come and go. Start with 5 minutes and work yourself up from there. For a variety of free guided meditations download the ‘Insight Timer’ App.
Mindful eating – skip eating on the run, at your desk, or while on your phone. Be with your food and savour each taste!
Studies show that practicing mindfulness strengthens our immune systems, decreases levels of cortisol (the stress hormone), as well as the size of the Amygdala – the fear center in our brains where our negative emotions & thoughts come from.
The more practiced we become at being present, the more we can open up to the richness of what life has to offer us. We can switch off autopilot and take back control in the driver seat of our lives.
And if that sounds like music to your ears, go ahead and enjoy listening to every note!
We know it’s hard to stay motivated, but it’s even harder to get your head in the game when you don’t have the right inspiration. False facts about what it takes to make your goals a reality could be sabotaging your self-improvement journey and preventing you from achieving your personal objectives in the workplace and at home. From the idea that money is the ultimate motivator to the strategy of playing the waiting game, this week we debunk the most common motivation myths surrounding success.
What are the top myths about motivation?
Myth #1: Visualizing success
Many people are told that if they can just picture themselves reaching their goals, they can achieve it. If you can imagine yourself as fit and healthy, or visualize the day that you finally get that sought-after promotion, then you’ll be one step closer to achieving success.
The reality: A lot more work goes into achieving your dreams than just imagining a victory. Simply visualizing success can be counterproductive and oversimplify your goal-attainment strategy. Remember, it’s always important to keep a positive attitude and strong mindset, but don’t let that overshadow the actual work needed to gear you towards where you want to go.
For example, many people may spend so much time visualizing getting fit and healthy that they never actually take the necessary, practical steps, such as tweaking their diet or starting to exercise.
Myth #2 Money is the ultimate motivator
For most people, money considerations seem to be at the top of the list when it comes to career choices and personal decisions. Many people still believe that the possibility of making money is the main incentive that encourages individuals to meet their targets and produce better work.
The reality: The motivation of money will quickly die out. If you place too much importance on financial gains, you may lose the passion you have for your work or for achieving that particular wellness or fitness goal you’ve been working towards.
This can leave you feeling more unmotivated than before. You’ll quickly find that your reasons for working so hard aren’t concrete, and if they don’t align with your personal goals and your own happiness, your determination to put your best foot forward will take a knock.
Myth #3 Nothing is more motivating than fear
Some people believe that fear can be used to ignite your work-drive and help you achieve your fitness, personal or work goals quicker. The fear of losing a job or a source of livelihood, or the fear of sickness and illness due to living an unhealthy lifestyle, may motivate many people to change their daily choices and work towards self-improvement.
The reality: Fear’s power is short-lived and its motivational push is only temporary. In fact, research shows that positive reinforcement is usually more effective than fear when it comes to building and maintaining motivation.
Over time, fear creates a stressful, unhealthy environment instead of a positive driving force which builds your self-esteem and provides encouragement as you achieve your step-by-step goals.
Myth #4 Overworking yourself
Many people glorify the idea of working too hard. Working all hours of the night, not getting enough sleep and juggling home and work responsibilities all at once is seen as a must-do for anyone worthy of achieving success and setting themselves above the rest.
The reality: Being overworked can drastically inhibit your performance and stop you from ultimately unlocking your full potential. Whether it’s achieving your dream job, reaching your ultimate fitness goal or excelling at a hobby, it’s important to maintain a healthy balance. Work hard, but remember to reward yourself with time off and a small treat every now and again.
Myth #5 Playing the waiting game
Many people believe that you have to wait for the exact right moment, pinpoint the perfect opportunity and wait for a specific inspiration in order to get motivated and start the journey to success.
The reality: Success is not about luck, and motivation does not come and go randomly. Staying motivated is a continuous process that requires constant thought and mind-maintenance every day. The key is to create your own motivation, don’t wait for it.
Sit down and make a step-by-step plan for reaching your goals. Find like-minded people to help you stay motivated. Why not join a fitness club or enlist the help of a professional society for better career advancement?
And don’t forget the most important part – always inspire yourself with small rewards for achieving every goal along the way.
Myth #6 Being smart makes up for motivation
Some people believe that being naturally smart or gifted means that staying motivated is not that essential. A lot of people rely on their intelligence alone to get them where they need to go and trust that they’ll achieve success regardless of the energy they direct towards finding inspiration and keeping themselves motivated.
The reality: Being gifted is not enough. Hard work and planning is a necessary tool for success. Researchers have actually found that intelligence is not always a good predictor of real achievement. However, with self-motivation strategies and your own passion driving you, you can never go wrong.
Myth #7 Only some people are real “go-getters”
Some people believe that you are either born to achieve great things or you aren’t. Often people will describe someone as a born “go-getter” – someone who can achieve anything they set their mind to and is naturally gifted when it comes to paving a path towards success.
The reality: having the right attitude and developing a strong work ethic takes time, and there’s no use being hard on yourself if this requires a bit of practice. People don’t automatically have a strong motivational streak or lack one.
It all comes down to your own passion for achieving your goals. The effort you devote to bettering yourself everyday and the small steps you put in place make you that much closer to reaching your goal every time you leave your home or office.
Key Takeaways
There is no one-step trick to finding motivation. Staying motivated is a constant process and it can’t be achieved overnight.
Hard work, a balanced lifestyle and strong incentive for achieving your goals outweighs any quick-fix motivational strategy.
Finding your own personal inspirations and having a strong commitment to your goals can be the biggest deciding factor when it comes to staying motivated for the long-term or losing your enthusiasm over time.
Still in need of some inspiration? Check out our Instagram page for some motivation magic. Our daily posts will give you the encouragement you need to pursue your goals, discover new health hacks and stay motivated everyday.
If you’re looking for any more friendly tidbits of advice, you can also take a look at our helpful blog page that discusses the most up-to-date health and wellness developments as and when they happen.
If you thought food was just fuel for your body, think again! Your mental wellbeing is directly linked to the foods you consume, and you can improve mental clarity and wellbeing from simply choosing better and more nutritious options. During times like these (Covid-19), where we have limited interaction with friends and loved ones, it is particularly important to prioritize mental health and self-care.
Unhealthier options that are high in sugar and fat are often seen as indulgent treats which may result in you feeling happier for a short period of time but leave you sluggish and flat afterwards. The effect of highly processed and sugary foods has also been found to influence your gut microbiome, affecting absorption and digestion which has an impact on various other functions in the body.
Serotonin is a hormone that regulates sleep, appetite, and mood. About 95% of the serotonin in your body is produced in the gastrointestinal tract (gut). The gut contains millions of nerve cells that help digest and absorb nutrients as well as influence the overall bacteria in your gut.
Having an overgrowth of “bad” bacteria can limit nutrient absorption and reduce your overall immunity. Boosting certain nutrients like prebiotic fibers and probiotics nourishes the good bacteria to improve your overall gut health.
Examples of foods that may aid the growth of good bacteria include fermented foods like yogurt, kimchi and kombucha. A highly processed and high sugar diet unfortunately has the opposite effect.
Think about your body like a car. Your car functions better when it is fueled with the correct fuel and breaks down when you forget to add fuel or if you use the wrong type. Your body is similar, holistically functioning optimally when you “fuel” it with high quality foods packed with vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants. The human brain is fueled directly by glucose, the by-product of carbohydrates. Foods that provide us with carbohydrates include fruit, milk, sugar, bread, and pasta.
As we all know, not all carbohydrates are created equally. Diets that are high in sugar upset your body’s regulation of insulin, promoting oxidative stress and inflammation in the body.
A balanced diet with higher fiber carbs like fruit and wholegrains is great for providing the brain with energy to function throughout the day with less insulin spikes, giving you more mental clarity. The frequency at which you eat may also play a role in your concentration and energy levels. Some people prefer to skip breakfast while others thrive on 6 small meals per day. The key is finding your balance and sticking to a plan that suits your needs and lifestyle.
Protein plays a role in providing our bodies with amino acids which aids hormone balance as well as mood. Including a variety of high-quality protein sources such as beans, legumes, lean beef, chicken, and fish is a great idea to make sure your productivity is at its peak. A regular intake of healthy fats also comes highly recommended for optional brain function. Include fat sources that are high in omega 3 and 6 to boost brain function and reduce inflammation.
Eating a variety of foods from different food groups daily will ensure you have a constant intake of different beneficial vitamins and minerals that play a role in your mental and physical health. Diets that are restrictive and ban certain food groups can result in nutrient deficiencies.
Shopping right
Next time you’re at the grocery store, take the time to fill up your cart with a variety of foods as well as colourful fruit and veggies and fermented foods. Having nutritious snack options on hand is also a surefire way to make sure you don’t reach for the cookie jar next time you’re feeling peckish.
The final word
Pay attention to what you put in your body and the way that certain foods make you feel. Remember that everyone is different and finding a way of eating that works for you and helps you function as your highest self is something that will take commitment and time, but at the end of the day, it’s well worth it – your mental wellbeing will thank you for it.
The importance of men’s mental wellbeing has often been overlooked due to the long-existing stigma surrounding men’s mental health. This men’s health month, we want to go deeper into dissecting ideas about masculine roles and gender norms and the way in which this affects the happiness, health and mental stability of men of all ages.
From turning to community support to trying new ways of doing therapy, there are some really beneficial daily practices that could help men struggling with mental illness everywhere. All that’s needed is an honest and open conversation about mental health struggles and how to start the healing and mental health management process.
Why has men’s mental health been overlooked?
For many people, depression, anxiety or any other disorder is seen as a sign of weakness, and this image is reinforced through everyday behaviour in society, as well as the way we bring up men in our society. From a young age, boys face different emotional expectations than young girls do, and they are given limits as to how they should feel and a quota for how much emotional vulnerability is acceptable.
This life-long fear of being vulnerable has created an atmosphere of toxic masculinity and there seems to be a culture where men are brought up to be strong and keep quiet, even when it comes to real difficulties or obvious signs of mental health struggles. The burden of these societal pressures often stop men who are struggling with real issues from accessing the right resources, reduces their opportunity to seek comfort in community support and prevents them from openly talking about these issues to a professional or loved one.
Help & Support
These dysfunctional expectations in our society are impacting our health and wellbeing in really serious and often unnoticed ways. Rising suicide and depression rates have been recorded over the last few years and, not only are these pressures weighing on our population’s mental health, but these pressures are also affecting the physical health of men across the globe. For example, there has been an increasing amount of research that points towards a link between high blood pressure and anxiety – which can cause very real and very serious health risks.
As a society, it is our responsibility to address and eliminate this stigma altogether. Both men and women alike need the space to connect with their inner emotions every day and start implementing small practices in their daily lives that will help them achieve a more mindful outlook and better balanced when it comes to their mental health.
So, what can we do as a society to encourage healthy ways to heal and give men access to the support they need – without judgement, fear or any type apprehension?
Men’s mental health organizations
Mental health organizations are one of the best resources for men facing mental health struggles. By donating to these organizations or simply recommending one of them to a friend facing mental health struggles, we can encourage the men in our society to access help when they need it – judgement-free.
These organizations allow men to reach out and connect with other men in the same circumstance who are facing similar struggles. Below are some of the most accessible sites that provide support and give men the right tools to take action and begin the healing process:
Over the years, research has uncovered a clear relationship between lifestyle behaviours and mental health, and it’s a lot stronger than most people think.Harmful lifestyle behaviours – such as excessive eating, alcohol addiction or sleep deprivation – have a strong correlation to the development and exacerbation of depression.
This means that encouraging healing lifestyle habits every day, while slowly eliminating the existing stigma surrounding mental health, are two of the most immediate ways to help men struggling with mental health and anxiety to live a happy, balanced life while getting the help they need.
Below are the 5 most important lifestyle behaviours for maintaining good mental balance:
1. Essential exercise
The most important lifestyle behaviour that most researchers focus on is the relationship between exercise and depression.
According to Mayo Clinic, a strong exercise routine and daily workout can relieve the symptoms of depression and anxiety tenfold by releasing good endorphins, inspiring social interaction and helping men gain confidence in themselves and their physical ability.
Although friends and family may not understand exactly what someone facing mental illness is feeling, they are still an unbelievably necessary support system and, for most men, these daily social interactions with the most important people in their lives are vital. Friends and family are a key part of the health and mental wellness journey.
They also play a large part in helping men battling mental illness to start living a more meaningful life by giving them the comfort of knowing that there are people standing behind them as they begin the process of learning to manage their mental health in their own time.
3. Talking to a therapist
Talking to a therapist weekly (or even daily) can make a world of difference. A licensed professional knows how to tackle these types of problems and manage anxiety, stress or symptoms of depression in ways that most of us are not able to think of on our own.
Trying therapy is not just about opening up and sharing with another person, but it’s also about developing helpful, life-long strategies that can better equip those living with anxiety or depression to deal with these struggles and live a happy, healthy life at the same time.
Some men may even want to try online therapy – it’s easy, more accessible and lets anyone connect to a source of support without leaving the comfort of their home.
4. Getting enough sleep
Getting enough sleep can single-handedly change the way anyone approaches the day. Fatigue from sleep deprivation can worsen the symptoms of depression, negatively impact your mood and cause anger or impulsivity. A lack of sleep also makes controlling and working through emotional reactions much more difficult. Sleep deprivation alters some parts of the brain over long periods of time, which means it prevents your brain from forming the right pathways that it needs to perform and function for the next day.
Strategies for getting enough sleep include turning off your TV and phone early in the evening, avoiding mind-altering substances like alcohol or addictive substances like nicotine and keeping the same sleep schedule on weeknights. These small changes could help develop a more consistent sleep schedule and drastically improve your quality of life.
There is a strong link between diet and mental health. While healthier foods and proper nutrition increase energy, diets high in refined sugar and fats can be harmful to the brain and magnify the symptoms of mood disorders. It’s quite a complicated process but, essentially, the mood mediator – a neurotransmitter called Serotonin – is produced in the digestive tract.
Unhealthy foods can cause inflammation and take the place of the good nutrients which your body needs for proper functioning and energy. While it’s not an all-in-one cure, healthy eating can really bring everyone a step closer to feeling better and shrugging off the lethargy. It will also allow the body to better produce the chemical it needs to maintain a healthy internal balance.
Key Takeaways
Living an active, healthy life can be difficult when you are silently struggling with your mental health. At WellBe&Co, we want everyone to be as healthy and happy as possible. That’s why we want to encourage all our readers to change their outlook and start searching for ways that they can help themselves, their friends or their family members who may be struggling with mental illness or mood disorders to get the help they need.
It’s clear that these desired, traditional ‘masculine’ traits have set up a generation of men who do not feel they are allowed to have a connection to their inner feelings or mental wellbeing, and, here at WellBe&Co, we don’t want to overlook this. We believe that masculine-related norms are a barrier to men’s health and mental wellbeing and that achieving mental balance and stability is vital for everyone who is currently battling with stress, anxiety depression or any other disorder.
It’s important to reach out to friends and family, as well as look inwards and use these 5 helpful coping habits to make small changes in your lifestyle every day. Most of all, we hope everyone finds the love and support they need to ask for help. We wish you all a safe, healthy and love-filled men’s health month.
June 23, 2020Gemma OberholzerEat WellComments Off on DEBUNKING THE STIGMA SURROUNDING MEN’S MENTAL HEALTH: HOW TO REACH THE ROAD TO RECOVERY & WORK TOWARDS HEALING
While we have all slowly started to adjust to the new way of going about our daily lives during the COVID19 outbreak, many people are still struggling to adapt to the new system of virtual learning and the added demands of being a parent with children learning at home. Parents are not only having to take on the role of caretakers while juggling the demands of the world of work, but many are also having to become teachers at home too.
We know that the additional stress of having to guide your child step-by-step through the whole process can be taxing.
That’s why we’ve put together this virtual learning survival guide to help you maintain balance in your personal life and achieve your health and wellness goals – all while helping your poppets learn at home. To all the parents out there, we hear you and we’re here to help.
What is virtual learning and why do parents find it so stressful?
Virtual learning is a web-based learning environment that allows students to access learning materials and resources using the internet at home. Virtual learning can often be stressful for both the parent and child, and this new way of accessing the classroom may be unfamiliar for children who are used to the type of face-to-face interaction they usually receive at school. It may be particularly difficult for the younger ones to adjust to learning with a lot less physical contact.
This new way of learning may also create a lot of instability for you as a parent. Suddenly your regular routine has been disrupted and your carefully thought-out schedule has to expand to fit in those extra responsibilities. Virtual learning often means that parents need to put aside some time to help guide their children through the online learning process. Often, children need to be shown how to use this new technology – and you may not even know how to use an online learning system yourself yet. This can be really stressful for parents who are not naturally very tech-savvy.
But, there’s no reason to panic yet. With a little patience and practice, the process will get easier and easier each time. The important thing to remember is not to absorb this stress. It’s essential that you prevent any unnecessary anxiety from affecting your health, your healing and your well-being.
The two different types of virtual learning
There are different types of online learning, each which requires a different degree of support from you as a parent. For example, fully virtual classroom classes are presented synchronously online where students and teachers attend live lessons. This means that it may require a lot less constant attention from your side as you can simply set the lesson up on the computer and the teacher will take it from there.
However when doing asynchronous online lessons, learners are able to attend pre-recorded classes at any time of the day. While this is the most flexible system and it could help you better fit their lessons around your busy schedule, it may require you to set a more structured routine for your little one. There’s a greater need to create a more disciplined approach to learning here so that the required work gets done and lessons are not skipped or missed. So, what’s the best way to set a study-at-home schedule?
Setting a schedule and creating a sense of stability
Learning online at home often means that there is no set timetable or structured routine in the way that there is at school. For both child and parent, this process can be disruptive and some order might alleviate a bit of tension on both sides. By coming up with a fun daily schedule that allows time for learning, outdoor activities and playtime, it might ease some of your anxiety while giving your child the time to take a break and recharge. This gap would also allow you the space to get some of your own work done in between lessons.
Try to make the learning process as natural as possible. Instead of trying to generate an hour-by-hour timetable, set aside a number of hours a day you’d like to dedicate to class time and allow time for activities such as sport or normal extracurriculars and maybe even have some fun baking a new sweet treat. The trick is to have reasonable expectations. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself. Some days might be really productive and other days you may not get through everything that you hoped you would – and that’s okay!
Challenges to learning and stress-free fixes
Despite the new and unfamiliar challenges that come with virtual learning, there are some small tweaks you can make to your daily routine that will help you manage this new learning system with ease and make the transitions as smooth as possible. So, what are the most common learning problems children have and how do you tackle them?
1. Frequently distracted
If your child is having trouble focusing, it helps to choose a designated study space and remove all potential distractions such as toys or games that are not educational. Whether you decide to set their study area up in your office or in your living room, ensure that this place is quiet, organized and free to be used at any time.
This doesn’t mean that the room has to be plain and uninspiring. Decorate the room with fun posters, drawing boards or stickers to make the room a place that your child feels comfortable to learn in and excited to be in. Try to make the decoration process a team effort and maybe even paint the walls a fun bright colour together. It’s been said that green is the color of concentrating, and that colour can influence learning by increasing focus. So why not give it a try?
Another idea is to try and meditate or start a daily yoga routine together with your child every morning. It’s never too early to start these types of healing and mind-management techniques. Go out into the garden, find a beautiful spot and place your yoga mats next to each other. Try to do the different yoga poses together or simply let your child sit there quietly and appreciate the sound of the trees and the birds. Meditation is the perfect tool to increase mental focus and improve concentration. This simple morning routine sets a great tone for the day and could help your child learn better later in the classroom while allowing you to have a few minutes each day where you can clear your mind and truly unwind.
2. Lack of motivation
Encouraging online learning can be difficult. But there are a few easy changes that you can make to get your child excited to learn and steer clear of any resistance. Try get them more involved by creating to-do lists and let them tick off everything they’ve finished they go. This will give them a sense of accomplishment and will make them more eager to learn. You could also come up with little things to reward them every time they complete a difficult lesson – such as including more free time and playtime outside for good work. Small things like setting out some healthy snacks to boost their energy might also make a big difference. If they are feeling tired or frustrated, do some fun exercise together outside to get the blood rushing.
While a good study schedule is essential, it might be de-motivating to do the same thing everyday. It’s important to get out of the study space every now and again and have some fun. Run, take a walk or play catch outside – whatever works best for you. A change of scenery and some mild physical activity could be a real game-changer. With these simple adjustments, you’ll maintain a better work-play balance, renew energy, and allow your little ones to go back studying with a clear mind and more motivation. This time outside also gives you the chance to work on your own physical fitness and well-being at the same time.
3. Trouble understanding the content
No child is the same and while some may adapt easily to this new way of learning, it may take some more time and practice for others. But there’s no need for this to cause a spike in your stress levels. Some confusion is only natural when it comes to something as new as this. As a parent, it’s essential to learn when to let go of these small issues and refrain from absorbing any unnecessary stress. This is the perfect opportunity to practice the art of letting go and effectively manage your anxiety. This tool could really impact your mental health positively over time.
The secret is patience and approaching the issue with a problem-solving mindset instead of frustration. There are a variety of solutions and a whole range of available resources to assist your child if this method of learning doesn’t work for them the right way. Expand your learning resources to incorporate online tools like PBS kids and CoolMath which will give your little one the extra help they need to engage with the content by explaining these lessons in a different way. Also try looking at something like K-12’s online classes for other types of learning activities to continue school at home during coronavirus.
Most importantly, make sure that they know they can always ask for help, and be sure to encourage them and applaud them for their progress. You’ll see, they’ll get the hang of it in no time.
Your health and happiness
It’s important in the midst of all the hustle and bustle of life to remember to stop and appreciate the good moments. Everyday you can make small changes to take active steps to live a more meaningful life. With the everyday stresses and a never-ending rush, these easy-to-implement, small lifestyle-focussed changes could make a real difference in the state of your mental health and wellbeing. Practices like daily exercise, positive mind training through meditation or yoga and healthy eating habits can do wonders for developing a more positive outlook.
Also be sure to put aside an hour in the day to take a hot bath and spend some time alone with your thoughts. Go into the garden with your favorite book and spend a few minutes allowing mind and body to get in sync with nature, free from any distractions. Make time to focus on your own health and happiness everyday.
How WellBe can help
At WellBe&Co, our goal is always to help you live as healthy and stress-free as possible. We know that it’s important to try and balance your responsibilities as a parent with your needs as an individual. That’s why we want to give you the right tools to help you live a more mindful and meaningful life.
Follow our Instagram page to get daily tips and updates about new workouts, healthy eating and inspirational messages that will get you moving towards a more wholesome way of living in no time. We also have weekly blog posts just like this to keep you motivated and help you tackle the week ahead. Our better body blueprint training guide is also a great way to get your fitness journey underway.
Start the process of achieving a happier, healthier and wellthier you with WellBe&Co today.
June 9, 2020Gemma OberholzerEat WellComments Off on A PARENT’S ULTIMATE GUIDE TO VIRTUAL LEARNING: HOW TO MANAGE YOUR CHILD’S LEARNING NEEDS WHILE MAINTAINING A BALANCED LIFESTYLE
